How many times has this happened to you.......

[MollyMoore]

This is a very common experience for me, and it's why I love the hobby so much!

[Promethium]

I wonder how Joyfull and MollyMore manage to pull it off frequently.

As for myself I have to hunt, research, and then take a chance. Sometimes I find my session less than satisfactory but as I have matured so have my tastes and ability to find what I'm looking for.

Thus when I find someone spectacular I see them often.

So, how to these women manage to do it? Mindset? Being picky?

Do tell.

[Hazel]

Are we including the laundry list?

I can't say it happens everytime. Do I enjoy the men I see? "HELL YES"! While it may seem smarmy to say "they ARE each special in their own way". I enjoy every single one of them, if I didn't they wouldn't make it past the living room, as I refuse to fake anything for the sake of fiscal benefit.

Have there been times when I am shaking like a leaf after a few hours with a gent? Nipples and lips swollen from attention, lions quivering, mind, is in fact blown and even though he is with me, I wonder when I will....if I will, see him again? "HELL YES"! Like Molly said, that is what I am here for!

I love, love, LOVE what I do, this part of my life.

[Promethium]

I suspect that women such as those here have nurtured and supported their sexuality to the point of being scholarly sophisticates with a very playful side and now their sexuality nurtures them. They have very open minds and positive attitudes.

They project this or have an ambiance that attracts those like them or those seeking something other than the sexual equivalent of casting pearls before swine with nineteen year olds.

Therefore, when such people meet its a wonderful adventure.

Yes? No?

Oh Wait! Don't a great many young women ask for "mature, respectful gentlemen"?

I wonder why they do that.

[Promethium]

I have had several. The ones I like the best are when the lady is so wiped out by her orgasms that she can only crawl around the room about twenty minutes... I don't need more than hour, if we are a match...the inferno happens pdq.
JQ

I cant say that I have experienced this type of session. My best times were playful, affectionate dates on rainy afternoons.

They were delicious little celebrations of our sexuality

[BeaBliss]

I don't think time has a lot to do with it. Some people are just better at letting go and experiencing their passion. And when they meet up with another passionate soul, sparks fly!

But both people have to be able to give as well as receive. I am a very passionate woman, but I have to trust who I'm with to really let go, so he needs to be full of respect and free of guilt. Women can sense that, you know. I won't trust you if you don't respect me, and you won't trust me if you feel guilty.

We get what we give. So the only thing missing in your encounters might be what you are not giving it. Do you show up with that intent? How do you show this to your lover? Duane always shows up with a thoughtful gift; he is a giver--of respect and a lot of other things. That's why he's so lucky in lust, he is willing to give it all he's got.

[wishIcould]

I don't think time has a lot to do with it. Some people are just better at letting go and experiencing their passion. And when they meet up with another passionate soul, sparks fly!

But both people have to be able to give as well as receive. I am a very passionate woman, but I have to trust who I'm with to really let go, so he needs to be full of respect and free of guilt. Women can sense that, you know. I won't trust you if you don't respect me, and you won't trust me if you feel guilty.

We get what we give. So the only thing missing in your encounters might be what you are not giving it. Do you show up with that intent? How do you show this to your lover? Duane always shows up with a thoughtful gift; he is a giver--of respect and a lot of other things. That's why he's so lucky in lust, he is willing to give it all he's got.

There are gents that truly love giving and receiving anything in return is not something expected and maybe not even desired. This is in direct conflict with a provider because she always feels she has to provide 'satisfaction'. Yet does she really understand that for some the giving by a gent is all that is necessary? Most likely not. I know I have tried but have never been able to only give...

I do agree when two are able to connect on different levels it is special. It starts with trust and respect for each other and grows from there. But this requires developing a mutual understanding of each other and in many cases does not occur on the first meeting. If it occurs on a first date it is usually because of interaction before that... maybe some online chat, or exchange of emails or PM's. Many providers do not like the preparatory exchange where both the gent and the provider actually look forward to meeting each other for the first time rather than the uncomfortable first 10 to 15 minutes of 'small talk' trying to figure each other out.

wishi

[uther pendragon]

For me as routine as rain in the Pacific North West. Not a week goes by that I am not weak kneed with women I have been a regular of for many years. None of that honeymoon or dating foreplay, but good old fashion smoldering hot passionate love making.

[Greenlake Buddy]

I feel a bit out of place in midst of some of the swagger depicted in this thread!

Truth be told, for some of us older gents, we are happy if we can merely manage to get it up and keep it going for the happy ending.

I love each and every one of these beautiful ladies. Especially you, Bea



...and Joyfull, and Joanne, and Sola, and...



Buddy

[wishIcould]

Truth be told, for some of us older gents, we are happy if we can merely manage to get it up and keep it going for the happy ending.

...

Buddy

Buddy... Very true. As you know there are other ways of giving and maybe one of the reasons I am not expecting anything in return

wishi